Flocking: The New Way to Travel Solo (But Not Alone)
Solo travel for women over 50 is on the rise, and for good reason. It’s empowering, flexible, and often easier to plan than coordinating a full family trip. But what if your spouse or partner doesn’t enjoy traveling—and while you’re ready to explore, the idea of being completely on your own the whole time still feels a little daunting?
That’s where the concept of flocking comes in.
Flocking is exactly what it sounds like: coming together as a small group for a shared travel experience. Think of it as traveling independently—but with built-in companionship, support, and shared moments. You still have your own space and freedom, but you’re not doing it all alone. For many women over 50, it’s becoming the ideal middle ground between a fully solo trip and traditional group travel.
Why Flocking Is Gaining Popularity
Flocking works especially well for women in this stage of life for a few reasons:
Comfort without pressure – You don’t have to constantly make every decision or eat every meal alone, but you’re also not tied to a rigid itinerary.
Shared safety – There’s comfort in knowing someone has your back if you need help navigating a new city, finding your hotel, or dealing with an unexpected hiccup.
Built-in connection – Traveling with a small group means shared memories, photos, and conversations without the emotional labor of convincing a partner to come along.
More confidence for first-timers – If solo travel is new for you, flocking can be an excellent “gentle entry point.”
And the beauty of this trend? It can be formal (through an organized tour) or informal (a few friends agreeing to meet up in one spot and explore together).
Great European Trip Ideas for a “Flock”
Here are some examples of trips that work especially well for a small group of women traveling together in Europe, along with a few fun reasons to justify the getaway.
1. A Milestone Birthday in Italy
Turning 50, 60, or even 70+? Italy is made for celebrating. Picture a small group of friends spending time in Florence, Rome, or along the Amalfi Coast—enjoying long lunches, wine tastings, art, and unforgettable scenery.
Why it works for flocking:
Easy transportation between cities
Endless options for group activities (cooking classes, vineyard tours, art walks)
Perfect blend of relaxation and culture
2. A Christmas Market Tour in Germany & Austria
This is a magical, festive experience that’s even better when shared. A cluster of women can travel city to city—Vienna, Salzburg, Munich, Nuremberg—sampling treats, shopping for ornaments, and soaking in holiday spirit.
Why it works for flocking:
Walkable city centers
Cozy shared moments (mulled wine, festive dinners)
No pressure to rush—each person can wander at her own pace
Great for: a “friendaversary,” retiree celebration, or just because.
3. A Wellness + Wine Escape in Portugal
Imagine a few days in the Douro Valley or Algarve: gentle walks, yoga, ocean air, incredible seafood, and local wine. This type of trip is ideal for women who want connection but also downtime.
Why it works for flocking:
Relaxed pace
Beautiful small hotels and retreats that welcome small groups
A perfect blend of self-care and social time
Great for: post-divorce reset, career break, or stress recovery.
4. An Art & Architecture Adventure in Paris and Barcelona
If your group loves culture, design, and museums, this is an ideal combination. Spend time in galleries, visit iconic buildings, and enjoy café culture together.
Why it works for flocking:
Easy high-speed train travel between cities
Deep experiences that spark conversation
Plenty of solo exploration time built in
Great for: celebrating a shared passion or a long-standing friendship.
5. A “First International Trip” Through Ireland or Scotland
For women trying international travel for the first time, Ireland and Scotland feel approachable, English-speaking, and friendly. Think castles, coastal drives, afternoon teas, and charming towns.
Why it works for flocking:
Easy communication
Strong tourism infrastructure
Safe and welcoming atmosphere
Great for: checking off a bucket-list destination with people you trust.
You Don’t Have to Wait for the Perfect Travel Partner
One of the biggest shifts happening among women over 50 is the realization that you don’t need to postpone your dreams until your partner is ready—or find one who is. Flocking gives you the chance to design the kind of experience you want, with people who share your curiosity and sense of adventure.
It’s still your trip. Your pace. Your interests.
The only difference? You’ll have a few familiar faces next to you at dinner, on the train, and in the photos.
And sometimes, that makes all the difference.